September 2025 Music Notes

Bridging Grief and Growth: The Power of Music Therapy for Heart Families

“ When I first began working with a 5-year-old boy whose sibling was a heart warrior, there was some understandable hesitation from his parents. They were unfamiliar with music therapy and uncertain about how—or if—it could help their son, especially after such a profound loss. What unfolded during our sessions, however, was something truly beautiful.

From the very beginning, giving him full autonomy over how he wanted to spend his music time. There were no expectations, no pressure—just a safe, playful space where he could explore sounds, rhythm, and expression at his own pace. Slowly, through instruments, songs, and moments of quiet creativity, he began to open up. 

One day, during what started as a seemingly lighthearted session, he chose a gentle melody that I played on guitar and began to talk about his sibling who had passed away. It was tender, unexpected, and incredibly moving. His words came freely, wrapped in music, and it became clear that this space had become more than just play—it had become a bridge to his feelings.

Later, his parents shared that they had not expected him to talk about his sibling at all, let alone with such openness and clarity. Until that point, they hadn’t seen him express these deeper emotions, and music had somehow opened a door that had remained closed through other means.

This is the unique power of music therapy. It offers a non-threatening, creative outlet that can reach places words alone cannot. For this young boy, music provided a language for his grief, a container for his memories, and a space to process loss in a way that felt safe and empowering.

Through rhythm, melody, and connection, we were able to honor his story—and his sibling’s—with care, respect, and deep emotional validation. Music therapy doesn’t just support the patient—it supports the whole family. It creates moments of healing where we least expect them, and gives voice to feelings that might otherwise remain unheard. ”

-Christy Merrell, MT-BC (CMMT Founder)

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